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No it isn't nature - it is culture - that is what you have been taught from day one and that is what you choose to believe.
But that does not make it true.
If you study the research - women get huge benefits from polyandry - that's nature. But I don't see you promoting that because it goes against your culture.
Good girls don't because it would debase them but if you save this debasing thing for your hubby - ooh la la it becomes priceless! Does that really make any sense? One ritual and alacazam sex becomes this great gift instead of some horrid thing that girls should always say No to?
Study some history. Look at how society has evolved. In many ways the ancient Spartans were further along the sexual revolutionary path than we are today. The point is women are sexual powerhouses and men have for centuries sought to control women's sexuality to ensure that al the kids they raise are their own. To do this they have invented this whole "girls should be timid, need romance, need to feel a close emotional bond, etc. ethos" - doesn't mean you have to buy into it.
And it isn't just our culture - look at all of them.
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