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21 is the long and the short of it.
The two of you are at different stages of life. Another way of stating this is that you are not only on different "pages", you are in different "chapters".
If you were 25 then I'd say 31 is not too much of a difference.
If you were 35 then I'd say 45 is not too much of a difference.
I recommend looking beyond the initial attraction and investigate ideas, attitudes, goals,
objectives, etc. and compare his to yours. He simply has much more "life" under his belt and this gives him a different slant on the world and the people in it by comparison.
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