If you have that little imagination, you should wait to have sex. Regardless of why, I agree with your friends who recommend against it.
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Now, having said that--
* how about a secluded area of a park
* how about parking just off a back country road
* how about a hiking trail
* how about the shore of a pond or reservoir
* does your community have a lovers' lane or inspiration point
Scout around in advance.
Unless you live in L.A. or one of the large east coast cities, it does not take that long to leave the canyons of the city for the wide open spaces of the countryside.
> We don't have money to got to a hotel room, plus it wasn't going to last long.
Just out of curiosity, how long did you plan on it lasting?
> We have no friends we can go to since they dislike the idea of us having it. What can we do about this?
**Listen to some friends friendly advice? What are their reasons for urging you not to do this right now?
Why do you want sex?
Why does your girlfriend want sex?
I'm not telling you not to, just to have a very good case for.
* You may not yet know this but girls have an entirely different reason a lot of times for why they want sex than why boys want to do it. Not always, yet more often than not, girls want romance and boys want a more intense way to get their rocks off than from masturbation.
Here is some reading material for the two of you:
I'm Ready for SEX! (or am I?) I really want to do it.
Lastly, is the matter of protection. If you are going to participate in adult activities, then be adult about it and understand what your responsibilities are as well as any consequences.
DO NOT rely upon each other for your protection!
Each of you must be responsible for looking out for A#1--you.
* She should be using a highly reliable form of contraception
* You should be using a condom
* The two of you, should use a third or back up measure, that
being a spermicide.
DO NOT tempt fate or try fooling Mother Nature. Contraception
IS NOT 100% guaranteed reliable. If you are not yet ready to
be an unwed father and to have the future course of your life
forever changed--wear a condom each and every time. (If you
ever have sex with a future girlfriend and she is/can not use a
highly reliable contraceptive, at least insist on the condom backed
up with the spermicide.
Birth Control Failure Rates
Lastly-
What Can I/We Do To Prepare For First Time Intercourse?
PART 2--Another view of the same question.
A Boy's Concern For Making the First Time Successful and Fulfilling
Please read the articles. Knowledge is empowering, and the two of you do need more information, regardless of what you decide to or not to do now or in the future.
I hope this is of help. Got questions?