I saw a video on stimulating the g spot at
www.orgasmarts.com
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It says you need to make a come here motion with your index finger and sort of and pull down on the g spot and then start off with short strokes and work onto longer ones.
In the g-spot article you mention (INTERCOURSE / ORGASMS / and the gentle art of G-spot massage) it says 'Rub or massage it instead of trying to do something with it on a transitory hit and miss touch and go basis with the penis during stroking.
To be honest i'm not completely sure what that even means (if that could be explained) but the point I want, which method is right?