Sure, there is a great book out there called "Tickle His Pickle" by Dr. Sadie Allison, with many techniques and such. You can get it through Pure Romance.
The other key is communication with your man, ask what he wants. Be willing to try different things for him and he will be open to try new things with you. I bet if you bought that book and just show your bf/husband this new found discovery he will be interested. I know that with my bf that we always try new things, and never afraid to discuss what each other wants in the bedroom. Hope this helps somebody...
