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This is one of the instances that you have to decide what's more important, pushing your desires onto her or respecting your girlfriend. Personally for me and my relatinship, once something is discussed and either I or he has said "NO", then repeated requests are considered disrespectful. In this case, my husband would say something like" I'd really like to cum in your mouth but I understand and respect your feelings I just wanted you to know just in case you ever change your mind!" No pressure, no demands. Boundaries should be reviewed and assessed from time to time but in no way should be disrespected. You need to be willing and free to express your desires but when your desires involve another person, then you have no choice but to accept where they are on the issue. For the record, I don't give BJ's. If I'm feeling like giving him pleasure, it's all hands because the taste and smell ejaculate makes me sick to my stomach and sets of days of GI upset. I don't like it and never will like it. If he can't live and love me unconditionally within my limits and boundaries then we'd have a serious compatibilty issue and best seek love and sexual fullfilment eslwhere. If this is a pivotal issue for you then you've really got a bigger discision to make than you think.
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