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I stumbled onto a similar thing kind of like this with an old bf one time. In a hot moment he asked me which of two things I wanted and I said 'I don't care, just do SOMETHING!!' He loved it that I'd gotten 'demanding'. I didn't intend it that way, that's just how it came out because of the heat of the moment.
Read it how ever you need to read it....ordering, demanding, assertiveness, or just going for what you want. It took me a little bit to get into the going for it thing once I realized I needed to be conscious about doing it. Takes practice like everything else, but it gets easier. It's really more about letting your thoughts come out your mouth, than anything else.
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