[dancingdoc2]

Well...it has been five days and our o/p has not checked back in to comment, although, she may have read the thread without logging in. For her and others in the same situation reading this, let me offer some additional suggestions:

> 2. keep it simple (missionary basically)

Traditionally, the Missionary position has been the defacto standard, yet it is not necessarily the ideal first time or two position. The Woman Superior or Cowgirl position in which the woman straddles the man's torso facing him is much better for first-timers as explained in the linked discussions, above.

> 3. make sure your ok throughout the whole thing and any time u r uncomfortable get off and stop it.

How do you "get off" if you are "pinned" underneath? Otherwise, I agree.

> 4. make sure he is the right guy and you will have no regrets

Young and in love, the guy is pretty generally the "right guy" at that moment in time. It's only after the event that second thoughts might emerge.

Whether you are the girl or the boy in a similar situation, make sure you are making the decision to proceed for the right reasons and only at the right time. At anytime you remain unsure or uncertain about whether or not to do "it"--DON'T.

"But I love him" is not sufficient reason.
"I'm curious about intercourse" is insufficient reason.
"I want him to love me"....
"I to do this so he'll love me....
If you want to lose your virginity just to get it out of the way--wait.
Although, you may want to today or tomorrow, next week or next
month, the idea may not be that appealing. This comes from those
who did it and then years later wish that they had waited until they
really did find the right man based upon being more mature and having
a greater understanding of themselves and life in general.

I'm not saying never to this, just bide your time for awhile. You will be a much different person in a year or two than you are today. You will develop a different perspective of the world and your place in it and most likely will have a much different opinion of who you are. Also consider that with teens, especially, young loves come and go and rarely are the fellas you later marry.

If a boyfriend is pressuring you or cajoling you to have sex with him, I say don't do it unless and until you see good reason for you to do it--not him. As I said, above, a young horny guy with raging hormones will say and do about anything in order to see you naked and then get his rocks off, often at your emotional expense.

A couple can have great sex without intercourse!

Consider that nimble fingers, supple lips, and, a dexterous tongue can excite either of you during Foreplay to a level of excitement and passion beyond what is usual as a result of being stimulated vaginally. As good as an orgasm is from vaginal stimulation, a great hand job with oral, is often much more intense. NOTE: Fellas, do not dismiss or overlook the fact that for females of the species, a great hand job is how they achieve orgasms most of the time--even during intercourse!, so why not you at this stage of life?

If you are a fella reading this awaiting and anticipating your first time, please understand that many girls have yet to learn to masturbate and climax. So, while the act itself may be enjoyable, pleasurable it may not be. Why? because very often the first few times a woman has intercourse it is not always a comfortable experience. Even if she has learned to masturbate and climax as a result, it most likely won't happen the first few times she has intercourse.

To any and all of you reading this thread and planning what to do, please go to the Index at the top of the main screen and read the articles from top to bottom a couple of times. Knowledge is empowering, and there is much there to acquire.