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I occasionally have problems with that. The width is the larger issue since nobody makes non-latex larger condoms and female condoms aren't always readily available. The polyurethane condoms won't even go on and polyisoprene stretch more but are still uncomfortably tight.
"Quickies" are a rarity because it can tear or be painful if time isn't taken to work things in slowly and allow the muscles to relax and be adequately lubricated. Even when very wet, if nothings been inside yet, small creases can be dry and crack if care isn't taken to work some fingers around or move very slowly in and out making sure to spread things evenly when one has a larger girth. With some women it's taken a few weeks to go from pleasurable but uncomfortable and sore after to pain free and orgasmic.
There's also the danger of being 'too rigid' where a girl can slam down on top of you and have you go in front of the cervix instead of behind and damage her or you can slip out and she can come back down on your tip with her pubic bone and injure your base.
The combination of being larger overall and harder also means that deeper oral sex is very difficult and more tiring on the woman's jaw. Even if she can open her throat and bend her head to accept it, sometimes you're just as wide or wider than her back teeth and there's just no way to avoid scraping the shaft painfully.
There are also plenty of times when some women really love the feel of a rigid larger penis filling them with firm pressure on their favorite spots, but others who feel like they're being poked and prodded instead of caressed.
In summary - Some positions and styles are easier/better with a longer/wider/harder penis while others are worse/harder and even dangerous. With whatever you have, the vast majority of people can create similar sensations simply by shifting angles and depths of thrusts as well as her torso and legs, however if you are in the minority of the larger size then you darn well better learn some anatomy and be careful or it can be extremely painful for your partner and even yourself.
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