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How does your glans ( the head of your penis ) feel after orgasm? Sensitive isn't it? Once you've orgasmed don't you just want to collapse in a sweatty-heavy breathing heap of quivering flesh? You partner is no differant. A woman's orgasm is similar to a man's but we supposedly don't have a refractory period between orgasms as is required by men to reload so to speak and yes, women are "capable" of multiples during the same encounter but it takes knowledge on how a womans genitals feel after orgasm. You need to allow her a few minutes to catch her breath and let her orgasm settle down, it only takes me 2-3 minutes and then we will do positions, like doggy or all the way down on my stomach that doesn't give my clitoral area any stimulation. We are still having intercourse but since my clitorus isn't being stimulated it's more comfortable. Once I've had one oragsm, I'm likely to have another one as long as there is some disruption in the kind of stimulation that makes me orgasm in between. Continueing clitoral stimulation immediately after my orgasm is excruiciatingly painful and will prevent me from orgasming any more that session and has even caused pain for days afterwards, not sexy and certainly makes me less likely to want to have sex again at all for several days. If your partner is so inclined, see if she will fellate you during the "intermission" or find a position that you can continue you be stimulated while she gets less and more comfortable stimulation while she recovers from her orgasm. The only way a woman can acheive multiple orgasms is change things up during the session, allowing for continued but differant sensations then resumming what gets her off after she's ready to try for another. Not all women want more than one, especially in her early years, it takes allot of both physical and mental work to make your body respond again especailly until she learns the triggers that will help her reach for a 2nd or 3rd orgasm. Another thing most men don't think about is that each subsequent orgasm, they usually ( for me ) get weaker and much less intense but takes just as much and sometimes more work and effort to get there, you just eventually get over stimulated and won't be able to have another one regardless of what you do. Have you ever tried to masterbate to ejaculation then immediatly get hard and masterbate to ejaculation within a few minutes? Can you even touch your own glans after you've ejaculated? My husband can't and I don't think you can either. Just keep that in mind when you expect her to keep going as if nothing happened!
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