[dancingdoc2]

> My boyfriend wants to go all the way, I don't,

> I'm not sure.

> But I want to do it.

Until you are absolutely certain you want to have intercourse, then do not. Some people do not value their virginal status all that much so want to open their hymen and get this out of the way. Others will remain chaste until their wedding day and Part 2 of the ceremony. Nowadays, the majority lose their virginity somewhere between very young and the day they marry.

What are your thoughts on your status?

If you believe that having sex equates to love, think again. I can pretty much assure you that at his age, your boyfriend will say and do pretty much anything in order to 1) see you naked, and 2) get his rocks off regardless of your emotions. Perhaps not, although, the likelihood of this is fairly compelling based upon history.

A girl's view of sex is vastly different from a boy's view of sex. For guys it is mostly about experiencing strong(er) more pleasant orgasms; for girls it is more about the emotional input and satisfaction. Only much later do guys put the two together.

If you want to lose your virginity in order to show or prove your love for this fella, then you are about to do it for the wrong reason.

> So the date was all set, anyone wanna give me any ideas one wat to do in certain situations, anything? I would gladly accept anything. I am hopeless at this.

What situations are you referring?

Actually, I believe the two of you put the cart before the horse by selecting a date before gathering all the information and education about this, first.