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Originally Posted by dancingdoc2
Well, Chick, I can pretty much guarantee that if the woman discovered him watching the clock that she'd be wondering if not asking what his hurry is or what is more important than "this". That might just be enough to send him packing to find out.
Having been there, done that, and made many similar recommendations to those, above, I believe I have a formula that works. Besides, open dating and dating lots of different people is the way it was done up until about the last fifteen years or so. Time to return to what worked in the past.
P.S.
[1] [2] My answers were a reflection of my wry, dry, sense of humor. 
There are no set times, nor should there be as noted. Take your cues for how long from her body language and her responses and for what she does in return. Read the articles on kissing and also making out and begin implementing the guidelines. Times vary depending upon conditions, mood, attitude, comfort, time of the month, and other unforeseen factors.
Explore and learn together in partnership.
-doc |
Hi doc,
As always, the voice of wisdom. I always look forward to your responses. You're right that I should not overanalyze this and reduce it to a mechanical process. I wish
I knew how to explain this. I just don't find myself in these situations very often but there have definitely been a few random instances that I did not see coming at all. Each of these have been with undeniably attractive women. Between trying to do everything right and deal with my feelings of absolute disbelief, I think I just bounce around from body part to body part without really spending time on them. This time, I definitely got some noticeably positive responses on certain body parts - more than others. Sadly, things did not last long enough since this was rather unexpected and happened while the girl was waiting at my place to be picked up for dinner by her friends. Our encounter was cut short when her friends showed up outside ready to pick her up.
I will definitely read the section on "Implied Consent". I definitely agree with your takeon dating multiple people. Interestingly enough, half these women I have had encounters are not people I asked out on dates. I don't even know how to describe this but it's these situations where the women end up not being from the city (and sometimes country) as I am. Either they're visiting, or I am visiting their city/country. The encounter stems from some random social situation involving others. When I talked
about not having the luxury of practicing with the same woman, I mean the following:
a. I either wasn't worthy of a second choice
OR
b. Geographic logistics did not allow for a follow-up encounter
I found your suggestions on the neck situation helpful and the ones on timing ridiculously funny!!! Thanks so much for taking the time to respond.
Regards,
Pimpson