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Thats great Kitten. Which branch were you in, former Army here. Spent most of my time stationed at Fort Benning. Retired five years ago.
I'm not saying your point of view is wrong for you, but it's not for me. I was put in danger more times than I care to count and a few of those times I really didn't know if I was going to make it out in the verticle position. All those time did make me appreciate my wife even more but they also drove me to be even more loyal and faithful to her and she says they did the same for her. For me having sex with someone else would cheapen my realationship with my wife. It would make me feel as though I was being disrespectful to her. I value our intamacy and feel that we are not to share it with anyone else just as our vows stated. For one of us to have an affair would be the same as saying the vows meant nothing. Now that doesn't mean you have to see it the same way, to each his own. The topic came up and I posted my thoughts and feelings on the subject.
Congrats on staying married as long as you have. In todays sociaty that is a true accomplisment. To many people throw up their hands and call it quits when the going gets tough.
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