|
First, a fact check. One-quarter of all women never experience orgasm. And half of all women require some stimulation other than penetration and thrusting to reach orgasm. We lie, too, only not quite as much as men. A woman in the stirrups in my office last week burst into tears. When we got her settled she said she had been faking for fifteen years.
Do not feel badly about yourself, that will not help. You have not gotten there yet but you are better off than a quarter of the women you see on the street. The teen boys I recall from those years, knew less about my body than I did. They were not much help. I have encountered some klutzes in older years, too. The improvement is that I now know the difference.
Get the book Our Bodies Our Selves and figure out how you work. Your orgasm is yours, not some lads.
__________________
Brandye
Don't wear cheap bras!
|