07-05-2009, 05:06 AM
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Originally Posted by BigEd
Sounds like you love her but she is driving you nuts, sex ( a very HUGE part of a marriage that will last) is boring, and you dont want to end up like your parents.
Take a break for a while and if she comes back and settles down with the mood swings, give it some more time (like another 2 years) and see if all these problems rise back up and rear their ugly head again. If they do and they cant be worked out, you are the only one who can make the decision of whether or not you are willing to live with the volcano that is waiting to erupt. Personally, i would take the break, start dating if she comes back but no moving in for a while. First time it occurs with the blowups, she would be gone with the explanation of "You haven't changed a bit" and byebye. After all, its ok for women to use that on men and throw us out or go storming out...
Not being sexist or biased, just stating facts...
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thanks for your response much appreciated |