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Originally Posted by miss_lovesSucking_dick
i like it, its new to me because i only try it with my fingers when i touch myself but i'd like my bf to try it with me soon
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you are liking it because you are in complete control of how many fingers, how fast or slow you go, if you dont like it you stop or if it hurts too much you stop.
You need to have a point blank and period discussion with the BF about the limitations of the first time, using a condom and lubrication EVERYTIME (to avoid possible serious health issues already discussed), and make sure that you go REAL slow. remember that it is a muscle, it will stretch to a limit and come back to normal size fine, but if you go beyond that limit it becomes vary painful and very dangerous health wise very quickly.
My wife and I have done it 3 or 4 times over the last 2 years and its still a very touchy subject. She had a severly sheltered upbringing and stuff like that is a major nono for her. So I am still trying to open her up to it over time. Problem is that I am thick in width, not overall size and that is like wedging a 2X4 up her butt.
Good luck with the topic raising and keep an open mind about the responses.