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They get hurt because by being exclusive you're implying marriage and eternal devotion. In effect, you're LYING. All that time and attention - it goes to your head and you get heavily involved and think its too complicated so you cannot just walk away and let it go because it has been so long and it is all good except for this one thing and really it was 'ment to be' and and and yadda yadda yadda.
Do you see?
That is precisely why you date around - so you don't end up trapped by your own weaknesses or theirs.
BTW get rid of your Galahad Complex, buddy. Certain women will use that against you.
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