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Old 07-02-2009, 12:21 PM
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Hello there, HelloThere.

Welcome to the Board and its Forums. I hope you enjoy participating. Please begin by familiarizing yourself with the FAQs, the Posting Guidelines section, and especially the Index, all found at the top of the main screen. The Index contains links to helpful informative insightful, as well as how-to articles. In addition, the site's Home page has a lot more information.

> I was raised in one of those families where everything sexual is bad. Now I'm 18.

Sex couldn't have been "all" bad--you're here!

> I tried masturbating for the first time yesterday after reading the article on female masturbation.

Is this the article you read?
For Women Only- Help! Why Can't He Make Me Orgasm?

Here is much more information and help:
The Anatomy of the Female "O"

> It started out ok but quickly I just got bored. I have a boyfriend and when he touches me it feels great. I was wondering if someone has tips on how I can get the same results by myself.

For boys, masturbation is an automatic given as he exits puberty. Driven by hormones and emotional factors, he is compelled to do it almost daily, if not daily, if not more. For girls, the drive and curiosity are not nearly as strong. Girls often do not learn until much later in life and after a concerted effort.

It will most likely take some practice on your part over several days or weeks depending upon how often you go about learning. Mother Nature has given everybody a pleasure center in the brain, the millions of sensitive nerve endings all over our skin, and, an autonomic nervous system to transmit signals; however, she has has not made the necessary connections. This is what must be learned. Think of it as connecting the dots.

There is much information in the links above, so please read them and put into practice the information on the one method described. Go at this when you are relaxed, have some extended time alone--and then do not pressure yourself to succeed.

> All my life I have been turned off to masturbation, I hope I can turn it around.

One of the articles describes all the benefits that come from masturbating. Any one or more should encourage you and prove that this is not a bad activity to be doing. Once you have learned to have your first orgasm, those that follow should be easier to achieve.

Once you are able to climax regularly and consistently and you want to enjoy them as a result of Foreplay, then read this article:

How Do I Get Him/Her to Orgasm From a Hand/Blow Job?


When you have the time and interest, please read the rest of the articles listed in the Index.

I hope his is of help. If after several days of trying you still cannot bring about a climax, let us know and we'll tackle this, again. Got questions?
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