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Originally Posted by dancingdoc2

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A successful relationship includes a key ingredient: Communication; either verbal or non-verbal. The same goes for the romantic aspect. You need to form a partnership and ask her these questions. She is there, not us, and it is her body and mind.

Now, having said that, I can state with 99% confidence that the fingering got her attention and her focus to the exclusion of the kiss.

Were you hurting her? Not likely because if you had, she would be telling you to stop, yelling, or grabbing your hand in order to stop you.

I hope this is of help. Got questions?

Thanks a lot Doc. Like I said, me and her talked about it with no problems. We always had a great amount of communication between each other but I think since this had to do with sex I was a little hesitant to ask her. But like I said, shortly after I posted this thread I decided to just ask her about it and I got the answer I was hoping for. Thanks again Doc.