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Originally Posted by EvilEvilKitten
You've been bullied all through school - and you did nothing to stop it?
Why is that? Well, you're out of school now and the world is a lot tougher so you'd better figure out how to tell people to get lost quick.
Now then, being all weak is NOT going to get you the quality girl/woman. If you're weak, how can she rely upon you when she needs you? You talk a lot about your feelings and shutting her out from them - that's the kiss of death to any relationship but you do not want to be revealing every last detail right away. You have to appear strong and open up to her later.
Trust? Sorry, that has to be earned - hence the not opening up right away.
But I will tell you one thing: people will take you at your word - what you appear is what you will be in their eyes - so pretend to be a TIGER.
Man or Mouse?
BTW - MOST younger men have PE and most older men have ED - so there. It happens to EVERY male. You're not alone.
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Thanks evil kitten but i did try and sort out the bullying it didnt work so after a while i gave up trying to sort it out the school was usless and grew a thick skin instead so after that it didnt hurt as much, and i am out of high school
and have learned to tell people to clear off with just a look now because i am big not as big as i was but more muscular and people tend not to mess with me now
I am a strong person i am always there for my friends when they break up and make up , And they realy want me to be happy but when i feel i can trust a person i will open up a little which is why i hope i can do that with this girL, sometimes its just easier not opening up at all not good i know but it keeps me from being hurt again i suppose!!