[dancingdoc2]

Yea, rite.
You have a lot of growing up to do and in the process learning how to read between the lines.

I can pretty much assure you and any young buck that fathers do not mean "anything". Very often not too many years ago a girl's father took a date or prospective beau out behind the barn for a no holds barred heart to heart talk about his daughter's virtue and in protecting it. My guess is that there are still a fair number of fathers living in America's heartland who continue this tradition. The rest of us have made an investment in a Ginsu kitchen knife!!**

If you rape her
If you get her pregnant
If you keep her out after her curfew
If you beat her or cause any injury physically or mentally
If you abuse her in any other way or cause her to be harmed by another
If you disrespect her
If you do not value and appreciate her
If you do not look out for her well being while out and about, then...

In the days of the Old West, fathers had a shotgun handy. (Getting a girl pregnant...ever her of the term "shotgun wedding?)
**Today's fathers are more about letting the errant lad live to ponder his misdeeds without his gonads and penis!

> how do i go about making this a time i will always rember?

First: make arrangements with a neighbor or family member to let her stay with them.
Second: Make out an itinerary for activities to do each day that do not include sex.
Third: If the two of you want to make out, fine, just limit your adventures to making out and going no further--period.
Fourth: plan family time together, either at home or with your family doing things elsewhere.

Fifth: Read the articles linked in the Index regarding the how-to's of dating.

Teenage boys will say and do anything in order to get their rocks off. Love and/or romance are secondary. Girls do not have the same view of sex.

Girls of all ages want to be valued and appreciated as people. Romance is at the top of the list and without it, there is little likelihood of sex. The chances of you having intercourse with this girl are slim to none even though you have a longstanding relationship with her. For most girls there has to be more involvement and you just are not at this point, even though she has stated her interest in pursuing the loss of virginity.

If you are lucky you may receive a hand job, so, be happy with this boundary. If you discount all advice given you about this, then make darn sure you do not have sex without three forms of protection. Hers, yours, ours. It is essential that she use a reliable contraceptive, you use a condom, and together the two of you use a spermicide! If she cannot use B/C, then at least use the other two.

Read all the articles listed in the Index. Knowledge is empowering. If you want a great time making out, there are a myriad of articles on all that.

Got questions?