[VooDooDaddy]

This is my first post. I stumbled in here looking for sex positions. I noticed a few post about prejaculation. I wrote this to hopefully help. Long Read but should be worth it. If you just wanna learn how skip to next post.

First a little about me.

I haven't had many sex partners. I started young though. I was 13 when I had my first sexual encounter. I had six more up until I met my wife when I was 21 and one more when I was about 24 while we were broke up for a while. I am totally monogamous so as far as I knew I was normal. I had talked to a few guy friends about sex. Funny thing was when I would tell them my story most didn't believe me.

The first time I had sex I came within like a minute, understandably since it was my first time. My erection remained and we continued for maybe 3 hours or so until my dad was about to come home.

I have always been able to last for hours and hours. Sometimes not even cumming, or controlling my ejaculation. I wasn't aware until I started researching and reading stuff online that lots of men can't control their orgasm.

I thought it was weird to hear that most men once they have one orgasm they usually lose erection. I have have went as long as 7 hours straight and cum probably 10 times within that time frame.

First from my experience, the first orgasm feels good, the second feels ok. Anything after that it feels as if someone kicked you in the prostate. It begins to hurt after a while. Basically you are having the ejaculation spasms, but nothing but clear liquid is coming out. Plus I have always had a very low sperm count. I am lucky if I could fill a teaspoon with even my first orgasm.

I haven't read anywhere online of someone offering or explaining my methods I use to keep and maintain an erection for extended periods of time. I am not even sure if anyone else can do it. I am sure if I conditioned myself on how to do this. I am sure any man reading this that wishes to last longer to please his significant other can do it to. I am sure if I knew that my method would work for others I could write a book and make lots of money from it. I would rather share it with you for free and hope I have made someone happy. Maybe save a marriage, or someone of a broken heart, boost someone's self-esteem, or just bring joy of sex back into the bedroom of some couple.

For starters, let me get a few things out there. I am all of about 7” at full erection and large girth. I am not hung but very flexible. I even know a few positions not listed here on this site. I will contact them and try to explain these almost contortionists sex acts. As far as achieving flexibility that is another whole post. I will write one after I sit back and think about how I managed that. I know one woman I was with during a separation with my wife looked at my size and seemed some what disappointed but after the night I gave her she said no man has ever came close to fulfilling her the way I did. This was all in the positions though not as much as it was the amount of time we spent. I gave her first vaginal, clitoral and anal orgasms. Hell I didn't even know a woman could have an orgasm from anal intercourse.

I know I use to drive my roommate nuts when my wife (girl friend at the time) would make love all night long. He said you have no idea how hard it is to sleep with all that going on. LOL! Even his girlfriend at the time cornered me one day trying to seduce me. This put me in a odd position cause I knew how crazy he was about her. No way I could do that. I didn't tell him for some time but eventually I did with help with another close friend. It strained our friendship for sometime. I told him I didn't make the move she did. She kept saying she fantasied that it was her with me instead of my girlfriend when she heard her ecstasy going on in the next room for hours and hours. Your not human she said.

Anyway sometimes I wasn't sure if the compliments I received was genuine. Years later I ran across my second girlfriend. I was 15 at the time. We had went out for about little over a year. Unfortunately she had cheated on me with a close friend. I never forgave her and we parted ways. Anyway I bumped into her in the mall. We talked for quite a bit. Then she started coming onto me. She started telling me how amazing I was during sex and for 10 years she has been searching for that with someone else. I told her I was married. I strongly believe in commitment. She knew that. I guess she thought everyone cheats.

(I will never ever cheat on my wife. If you have ever been cheated on and experience the pain of a broken heart, then for god's sake don't put someone else through that. It is very selfish plus if your sex life is good at home there is no reason to stray. If sex isn't that good at home then communication is the key. I know me and my wife went through a dry spell that lasted 2 years. Why bring that shame onto yourself and your companion. Especially if you have kids. This isn't from any religious morals. I am an atheists. OK sorry for the rant.)

I was blushing and somewhat proud of myself. I also felt vindicated that she was unable to find someone that could satisfy her sexually because she thought cheating on me was such a good idea at the time. I walked around with a egotistical grin on my face all day.

Well now that you have read a little about my history. I will try my best to explain how I think I have conditioned myself to maintain long lasting erections. I hope that it helps someone. I have had to sit back and think about this for sometime. I also the other night tried to take mental notes while me and my wife were having sex. I was analyzing what was going on and what I was doing. I have done it for so long it is more subconscious for me. I just do it without even thinking about it. I can hold off to the point sometimes I do not even have an orgasm. This makes my wife sometimes disappointed because she thinks it is something she did. I have to reassure her even after all these years that it is me. If I put it off to long sometimes I just don't and that is fine. I would say probably 9 out of 10 times I don't achieve orgasm. Unless she is focusing all on me. Sex should be more about the physical and mental connection. I love being with her. I love watching her. I get more out of sex than just an orgasm.

So here goes.

Make a mental note. Being able to go for hours can be boring sometimes. Make sure you have plenty of positions to help spice things up. Also sometimes a woman may become dry. Always have plenty of lubrication on hand. I made that mistake once. I had blisters an inch wide and up and down both sides of the shaft of my penis. It was very excruciating and lasted for days before healing. Also the girl I was with was plenty sore herself. She also developed a UTI. Not sure if that was directly related. I am sure it didn't help her situation. Also if it is getting a little dry down there take a time out for some oral sex to get the juices flowing again. Also always communicate with each other, too fast, too slow, harder, softer..... etc.... etc.... and one more thing... when you two go at it for long periods of time sometimes the desensitizing of both of your genitals, you might not be aware that you are drying out. Believe me LUBE UP!