[snowman]

Here's the deal.

I have been with my Gf for 2 years now and it just seems to me like this is a pivotal moment in making a decision for the future. I truly love her for the person she is and everything about her. Unfortunately, every month she always seems to go on the attack about something for a confrontation its a case of jekyl and hyde, where after 3-5 days she is fine aagin. I put it down to mood swings due to hormones but I am not sure but i asked her to try and sort it out. She always complains about me not listening to her over and over but I DO listen and it frustrates me when she keeps saying this.

She is keen for marriage in the future but i have my doubts purely for a couple of reasons. Both our parents are divorced, my situation being very recent and it has put me off marriage simply because i do not want to go through the same thing.

Our sex life started off well and was exciting but now i just dont get excited and feel like a change. We only ever have sex in missionary position which i find mundane. I have expressed this to her and her worry is she will suffer pain when doing it in other positions. I told her to take it slow, use lots of lubricant etc but it just doesnt work. She said she would sort it out possibly with hypnotherapy but nothing has changed. She is a girl who very much does not like moving out of her comfort zone.

Recently i dont even feel like seeing or talking to her which i know seems harsh but i dont know what to do. I really want things to work between us but i feel as though even though we are a team, alot of these things need to be tackled by her.