[dancingdoc2]

> Well, she is not the type that will even let me ejaculate in her mouth or any where on her body except inside her.

Have you asked her why she won't let semen touch her skin, especially when it can be easily and quickly wiped away?
This reminds me of a time years ago when I dated a woman who at the first sign of perspiration would race to the shower!! If we were out and about then touching or cuddling like a hand around the waist or shoulders was shunned because she always wanted to be clean and pristine and "presentable" in the presence of others. Housework? The apartment was a mess because all her attention was on not getting dirty or grimy. Needless to say, I did not know how to handle this and so the relationship ended soon after it began.

How does she handle sweating during lovemaking? As mentioned, above, oral sex is often nothing more than lips to penis and/or mouth around penis. Many women have set their personal limit at ejaculating outside. Others will permit ejaculating inside and not swallowing. In this case they use a tissue to get rid of the evidence. What will she say to having a washcloth at the ready so that when you do ejaculate the semen will be caught on it? You might propose this alternative. If she says no to this then a bigger danger sign is in not having full acceptance of you--all of you. A huge psychological benefit of ejaculating on her skin is in her acceptance of "all of you" unconditionally.

My question is what her reaction will be if you lose control and accidentally ejaculate somewhere on her Vulva or thigh? Regardless of your answer, my worry is that this girl is far too restrictive with the entire process of love making to have any fun. Think about this..........

That said, it is worth trying to open her eyes to what is common practice by asking her to read the articles listed in the Index. Do the same and then discuss the information you have read. My guess is that she will find fault with most of what is presented, or, she will gain an understanding of what others do and decide that these activities are in fact done by others all the time so why not do them yourselves. Either way, you will know where your and your relationship stands.