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Welcome to the SI101 Board and its Forums. I hope you enjoy participating. Please begin by familiarizing yourself with the FAQs, the Posting Guidelines section, and especially the Index, all found at the top of the main screen. The Index contains links to helpful informative insightful, as well as how-to articles. There are articles on dating.

First, it is important to understand the differences between the genders. Guys want to get laid and will say and do nearly anything in order to get their rocks off. Girls, on the other hand, desire romance among other things and will sometimes have sex as part of the package. While you may find someone who wants to jump your bones and have sex for sex sake, it is not the usual.

So, let family and friends know that you are interested in dating and ask that they help you look. You will probably find someone at your school and the more people you have looking on your behalf the better your chances at finding people. This is called networking.

When you do find someone to date, do not be too quick to enter into an exclusive relationship; in fact, don't. Keep your dating open ended and date lots of girls over the next several years. You'll learn why by reading the articles on dating as well as an earlier post, today.

Work your way along over the next several months after you do begin dating a girl. Learn all about Necking, Petting, Heavy Petting, all before getting to the Foreplay stage that should take several months to get to this point. You'll have a better chance of having a more meaningful relationship by taking your time getting to know each other than just trying to get inside her panties as quickly as possible. This approach places you in the "cad" category, insensitive and uncaring, and worst of all setting you up for possible rape charges at the extreme.

Slow down, take it easy, masturbate a lot, and then work on developing relationships with others that become meaningful.