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Also, how would you say it harmed you? That I do find interesting.
Disease? Reputation? Self image? Physical harm? If self image, is it because of the concept of slut and virginal woman = good and pure, or is it because you bought into the b.s. that society fed you? If you ceased to believe societal b.s. would whatever harm you suffered abate or disappear?
Personally, I stopped believing societal b.s. about "johns" and I have enjoyed my sexuality for the first time in my life. It's been a godsend. Thank god I cast off the idiotic crap about all johns being abusers and wanting to hurt women. I have no intention of harming any woman, have not harmed any woman (no more than usual of course, to some women, my mere existence is harmful to them... but I digress) that I've paid for the pleasure of enjoying their company.
That said, I am certain that not all of them were comfortable with what they were doing, but most of them were. Considering the number of times I've been turned down cold (i.e. even with money in hand I couldn't get laid), I know it's not because they didn't have a choice with me.
But again I digress...
How were you hurt? I want to try and understand the harm that you've suffered...
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