[Brandye]

Forget cultural approaches and follow the biology. The male body is a sperm machine. Beginning at puberty, the testes produce testosterone and sperm in vast numbers and the vas and prostate produce semen for most of the rest of the man's life. Much of this stuff is reabsorbed into the man's body. In most men, the production exceeds storage capacity and this excess must be dumped. This can be accomplished by nocturnal emission, masturbation or with help of a friend extracting the semen through a variety of techniques we women have patented.

The woman has no such imperative. We are born with as many immature eggs as we shall have in our lifetimes. We also have to learn to express ourselves sexually - almost automatic for the male.

We can validly say that the man has a greater need for ejaculation than a woman has for orgasm. Now, let societal norms and individual preferences take over.

I can assure you that I can drain any man dry. Women can be satisfied without being satiated; men can be satiated without being satisfied. I rather like my role in the whole scheme of things.