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I think just like the marriage itself, both parties have to be vested in keeping it alive. I am early into parenthood and 5 years into marriage, but I am noticing that my wife is very into being a Mom right now. I love seeing that side of her but I also need to be wanted...and I think if this was more evident than I am certain I would also be more inclined to show her the same in return. Sex, pleasure and all things bedroom need to be a two way street.
I did take issue with what the poster said above about pulling out anal toys to additionally please his wife when he never stated whether she really enjoyed anal. perhaps he wants a little anal. I found the response to that very enlightening. I might have in the past fallen into that very same world. But how do you help your wife discover her passions, lust and desires?
A well put point was made about trying to find out what she enjoys and then pursuing that insted of yanking out some anal toy. Men and Women have been having kids, lives, careers and sex for a very long time....I am certain these issues are not new.
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