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Do not yell. Do not debate. Do not whine. Just tell your girlfriend that as much as you adore her, as much as you desire her, as much as you enjoy her and being with her - you simply cannot continue being in a relationship with a girl who permits her friends to interfere with that relationship. Be prepared to walk away. (BTW you should stop giving your heart away so easily. Date a person for 2 years before you speak of love.)
The other girl is terribly unhappy and wants her 'friend' (your girlfriend) to also be unhappy.
The other girl is socially competing with your girlfriend by making sure your girlfriend does not have a boyfriend. Since she cannot find a boyfriend, your girlfriend should not have one either. It is a question of control.
The weak and immature will always be drawn to the apparently strong and confident. You have to decide if you want her enough to be that strong and confident person.
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