Pr0n is good!
Ok, I'm 17, and I've only had one girlfriend to date. However, when we hooked up, I was the knowledgeable one. She'd had a few bf's before me, and our first kiss was awkward (my first ever), and so she thought she had more experience than me.
She didn't.
Or at least, she had more experience in one field, and absolutely none in anything sexual. The reason: I watch porn, she doesn't.
Just watching porn makes you better in bed. For the guy who started this thread; I'm truly astonished you don't know where the vagina is. Watch two people have sex, and you'll see where your dick goes; that's her vagina. Unless they go anal, but you should already know where the anus is; you have one after all.
The three holes aren't for fingering; they're for your penis. Traditional sex utilizes the vagina, the first hole. Oral sex is done with the mouth, the second hole. Anal sex is fucking a girl in the ass, the third hole. You only finger the vagina or anus; but watch out going for the ass, because it's an unpleasant experience for a while and a lot of lube and simultaneous stimulation of the clit/g-spot is advisable.
On the topic of virginity; it's not necessarily a physical/biological status. The hymen isn't a reliable source anymore, because physical activity tends to break it, and tampons are so commonplace now. You have to take her word, but in general women don't lie about that. They will to their parents, or possibly new lovers if they're uncomfortable with how their new lover might think of them, but frankly it's a non-issue anyways. Virginity is neither a positive or negative thing; sexuality should be explored, but if you're not ready for it then that's just you.
As far as technique is concerned, go with what everyone's been saying; take it slow, and gradually amp up the tempo until she orgasms. Generally, start with one finger and rub her clit with your thumb at the same time, and once she's nice and wet you can slowly slip in a second finger. Pay close attention to how she reacts; some girls can't take it, and if that's the case just back up and keep with one finger (suggested using your middle finger; it's most comfortable for you and give her the most stimulation). If your girl's open to it, a little anal pay is good too; just keep stimulation on her clit with your thumb, finger her with your index finger, and lightly play with her anus. Full penetration should be a focus in and of itself, with fingering her pussy or rubbing her clit being back up so she subconsciously connects anal penetration with pleasure. And, like I said before, use a lot of lube.
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