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Originally Posted by EvilEvilKitten
Why are you men having difficulty understanding this?
It seemed quite clear to me.
"Do you want to have NSA sex with me?"
was met with
"Let me get to know you better."
He may have an issue with this because he might fear that if she does get to know him, she may not like him, or like him enough to enjoy him - all that effort and time wasted (Hah!) Or, he may be worried that if she gets to know him better - she may get attached.
But there isn't a "mixed message" here. Unless she was naked and sitting in his lap when she said it.
A "mixed message" is one where what she does, doesn't match what she says.
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I guess my post sparked this, but I
did mention in my post that I didn't see any mixed message. The rest of my post was conjecture and may have been unnecessary, but I thought it might help him know what to expect. Simply an 'FYI' type of thing. I otherwise agree with you on all points, Kitten.