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Kitten is right. You need to eliminate her workload to allow her the time and the energy to enjoy her sex life. After the birth of our second child my wife's sex drive took a dip. She was great at "helping" me out, but her enjoyment was lacking that's unacceptable. I asked her what I could do to increase her sex drive and I was shocked when she said, "help out around the house more." It sounded strange, but I jumped in and did all I could and I was stunned by the results. Her drive went up exponentially and I learned that she needed my help more then I thought. I have started doing even more, not because of the sex angle, but because she does enough already.
As for setting aside time for just the two of you. Bang on. Saturday night is our "date night" and honestly, it's become my favorite day of the week without exception.
As for the medical reasons for her not enjoying sex, I can only say she should see a doctor. If sex is painful for her, I can see why she wouldn't want to.
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