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With my late wife, although we could enjoy a very mutually satisfying sex life, and she was very orgasmic with me and could easily be brought to climax over and over, she seldom was really interested in pleasing me beyond, "put it in and get it over with" after HER pleasure. I guess she felt ANY sex with her should be considered a bonus for me. And although during our 34 years together we did go through some very sexually exciting and adventurous periods of time (role play, dress up, watching porn, light bondage, etc.), she was often interested only in getting HER rocks off, and whatever I did or didn't feel was my affair. This was an emotional as well as physical attitude--she loved me dearly, but seemed to not love pleasing me, although she certainly loved being pleased by me, especially orally. She never reciprocated that, however. So saying that if a man would be more interested in pleasing his woman, the woman would be more interested or enthusiastic in pleasing him, is not always true.
Michael
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