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Originally Posted by Buck Naked
I think the bigger question here is "Do men really want to please women?".
Too many of my friends think sex in a marriage is a given. They honestly think their wives should fall down with there legs in the air when they feel the urge. Honestly, they sicken me. I work very hard to give my wife the same level of satisfaction that she gives me. There is no way I can, but I do my best. Her sex drive is lower then mine at this point in our marriage, but I expect as we age that will flip and I hope I'm as good to her as she's been to me.
My point is that women are not here for our pleasure. This is a two way street. If men (in general) were more willing to please their partners, then the act wouldn't be a chore for the women.
In my opinion, if a married man is going to pay for sex he has failed to fulfill his duties in his marriage.
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I agree one hundred percent. If my partner is not getting off, I'm not doing my job. That's my personal opinion on the matter, so take it with a grain of salt, but still... Too many people are concerned with their own pleasure too care about the person they are with. I know from experience. Ask me about it sometime.