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Originally Posted by aili8447
You don't understand-I didn't hint. I told him exactly where and how to touch me-he didn't listen. I'm asking here because it's been a long time since I've had sex and I lost my confidence. I never asked him how it was. He volunteered that information but never asked me.
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> > Why didn't you take his hand in yours and SHOW him what you wanted?
You missed the key, above. There is a vast difference between verbal instruction and hands on--your hand over his. Then, give him verbal or non-verbal feedback on how you are responding and for what you need now/next.
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Life without dancing?
I don't think so......
The feet may learn the steps;
yet only the spirit can dance!
Dancing is the fastest way to get
a girl alone and into your arms in public.
The Tango smolders and burns. It ignites the
heart, the soul, and yes, the libido.
Life is not about waiting for the storm to pass,
it's about learning how to Dance in the Rain!
Dance as if nobody is watching.
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