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If you are going to be sexually active - get on the Pill. Taking steps to prevent pregnancy is your job.
Condoms are used not to prevent pregnancy but to prevent the tranmission of disease. Wearing one is his responsibility.
If either of you is unwilling to do what is necessary, then you should not be having sex. You're not adult enough to engage in adult play.
The reason you're feeling so anxious now is because you did not do your part before you engaged in sex. You did not get your gyne exam, you did not learn enough about your body, and sex, and how everything works. You just went with it. Face it, something this important and you spent less time preparing for it than you did picking out the clothes you want wear tomorrow.
Don't do that again. This is your body and your life - take control of it.
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