[Brandye]

If you look around the forums you will find several places that I mention married women having a girlfriend on the side or my own more or less primary relationship with another bi-woman. We assume, mostly accurately, that the point of sex for a man is ejaculation. We find beauty in woman love in that orgasm is often a great benefit but not the object of the contact.

Perhaps we need to discover that some men are similarly disposed. I always feel that when I have been treated well, some reciprocity is required - so he does not need to cover a lump in his trousers going home. We are somewhat fearful of being considered teasers who never really come through.