[RATED-RKOFRANKLIN]

I'm not looking for a "fling or a "one night stand". I want a real relationship. I don't expect to marry someone in just a few months. That is a big decision to make in life! I may date someone for two maybe three years before I want to marry them and other things have to fall into place as well.

I have my physical standards and I do have my personality standards. All of my standards are important and the woman must have all of them. I may like the body but I do not always like the personality(which I'm sure I said this already). If I do not like the personality than I'm not interested in her.

I see the advice people have given me. The advice is good for just about anyone. However I have done everything that has been advised to me. I don't talk about most of my hobbies to another woman unless she likes the same thing. I usually talk about what she likes and want to know more about it. When I ask women on dates I tell them that I am interested in them and ask them on a date. They always say no. I have perfectly fine friendships with men and women. I don't have many enemies. I try to be friends with alot of people. I love getting to know people because everyone is different! I'm funny, mature, nice to people, I give back, etc. I try to do the right things. Nothing works. That is why I'm asking for help. Every time someone gives me advice I have tried it or what they said is not true about me.