[EvilEvilKitten]

You really need to go and review ALL of my posts before you accuse me of lying. Stop reading my words through whatever filter you have in your mind and read what was actually typed. Lying is telling a deliberate falsehood. I do not lie. It is not worth my time and effort to lie. If you read what is there - I did not say you were, I said I doubted that what you displayed was not. There is a subtle difference.

Frankly, you're not ugly but your suit is.

And you look like you're 12 years old.

THAT's your problem - you look like someone's kid brother.

Which probably explains your defensive attitude towards us and our advice including your continued confusion between respect and civility.

There is no magic formula, no magic words, and nothing that will improve your situation - you look like a pre-teen guy. Until you've grown into yourself, and have stopped harping about respect/disrespect, you're not going to be successful with women. Need I say this again? Seems I must. What you want is NOT as important as what women want. You do not bait tigers using zucchini. Women do not go out with "kid brothers".

Women lie to save your pride and to keep themselves from getting beaten up. Plain and simple. Yes, to your face they will like you as a person and think you're great, here they're not lying, but when it comes to sex with you - not a chance! - so yes, then they'll lie and say they have to wash their hair or something equally innane or they'll toss out a 'throw-away line' like "you're ugly" in the hopes that ugliness, about which you can do nothing, would be more acceptable to your pride than "hey, kid, you're 12".

Stop acting like this happens only to you - it doesn't. EVERY PERSON will go, is going, and/or has gone through the same crucible - rejection. You either learn to deal with it effectively or you don't. Those who don't live very unhappy lives seeing insults where none were said or meant. Capice?