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Originally Posted by EvilEvilKitten
Because most human beings from time immemorial and before there was written history have been gathering together and having parties! So, it is somewhat hard-wired that parties = fun and therefore no parties = no fun. In this game of dating, your interests aren't as important as hers and most women are very social and adore parties.
You are confusing respect (which must be earned) with civility (which is due to everyone simply because they're human) - stop doing that. You earn respect through accomplishment and service - not just by breathing.
Nothing wrong with liking slender women, but since slender means an absence of fat and breasts are mostly fat - slender women tend to have smaller breasts. Just how it goes. I'm encouraging you to also adopt the "it's the person not the packaging" attitude. Since you get what you give in this life and if you want her to overlook your "ugliness" you might try opening up your mind as well.
Biological evolutionists will tell you that the reason why most men prefer slender women is because slender means she's not pregnant so you're in with a chance. They will also tell you that the whole big breast and hips thing is all about child-bearing and child-feeding - and not because of tit-fucking.
Telling someone something negative usually does hurt their feelings. Ugly? How so? Confident? I doubt it was the "confidence without arrogance" that I specified. You can be as "cocky" and "macho" as you want but unless it is innate and without the "strut of arrogance" or "penis-waving" - it won't work and your show of 'confidence' will feel false to women.
Didn't say you weren't trying. Said you were going about it in the wrong way and asking out the wrong women for the wrong reasons.
Of course you're being judged!! I am an adult and that is what adults do.
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All because someone does NOT go to most parties make them boring. You act as if nothing else I do in my life matters. I did mention that I do attend birthday parties and parties for soldiers who return from Iraq. You can't completely judge someone as boring all because the person does not do one thing. That is going to far. That would be like saying someone is stupid all because they made one error.
I don't know where you are from. However I have seen plenty of slender women with big breast. As I said, I don't care if they are natural or fake.Yes I know about why men are attracted to large breast. I looked the information about that subject two years ago in my high school psychology class.
You are not understanding me at all. What I mean by respect is that don't disrespect me. You may not like me but don't disrespect me. Don't try to start a fight with me. Do not call me by racial slurs nor talk about my family. That is not being macho at all. I never go off on someone who has done nothing wrong to me. People in general do not want to be disrespected in the examples that I have given you.
Here is an real example of me going off on someone. I had a crush on this girl in high school. This girl lied that she was interested in me. We had one class together in high school. She wrote me a lot of love letters. However at the time she had a boyfriend(I did not know at first). When I found out she avoided my question and later told me she never liked me. That pissed me off. I have never and will never respect her after that. She simply had the option not to lie to me that she was interested in me. She came on to me. This could have been avoided by her simply by not coming on to me.
As I have told you I had confidence for many years. I was not arrogant when coming on to any woman. I just told them how I felt about them and asked them on a date. That is far from being arrogant. Women did not care that I had confidence. This is part of the reason why I am asking for help. I have never read about any solution for my problem. I have read that dating is a numbers game. I have asked out a lot of women and so far there has not been any success.
The words I put in bold is not what I said at all. Please read my opening statement again.
Yes I said I was being judge! However I said I'm judged as if I have not tried, I'm boring and does nothing, and not having confidence(at the time when I'm trying to get someone). I have tried. I do things and is very active. I had confidence and women still did not care. I'm not being judged by facts! I'm being judged by assumptions and not who I am nor the situation.