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Originally Posted by funinthesun
It's only fair to point out that the majority of the girls that he is likely to meet at that age are just that and not women - so be prepared to spend a good amount of time looking. Also, since you are in college now, it would probably help to improve your English.
As for the mean streak - that has to go. There is a big difference between protecting yourself or others and making sure that others know that they've made a mistake and simply trying to get revenge to make yourself feel better. This is very, very important, because if you are ever truly successful at something, then so many of the people you meet will be trying to use/abuse/cheat you to get what you have that staying your current course would mean it consumes all of your time and energy.
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My English is just fine. That has nothing to do with this issue.
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Originally Posted by EvilEvilKitten
You want a slender woman with a C cup pair of breasts - oookay. Perhaps female anatomy has passed you by but you should realise that she doesn't usually get big breasts unless she is big elsewhere as well. You might find the odd girl out but really - don't expect it. Strike 1.
People found you cool BUT the women didn't flock to you and you don't like parties. Translated = no fun. Strike 2.
The whole macho/respect me attitude - chip on your shoulder. Strike 3.
You're in college now. Look around and see those women who are getting the grades? Those are the ones to go after. SLOWLY. Yeah they may not be beauties but you know - they tend to be better persons.
Women like confidence without arrogance. They like men who are comfortable in their own skins. They really do not give a damn about your ears, etc. It is the person not the packaging that matters. Women also like to have fun. I suggest you learn how to dance and then go to parties and dance with as many women as you can talk into it. Do not give up. Please note, I said women not girls.
You have a lot of growing up left to do but it will come.
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Well as I said I don't like women with small breast nor fat women. What is so wrong about liking only slender women with big breast? It does not matter if they are natural or fake. Going through high school and just a year of college I've seen plenty of women(the real world, not porn) who has at least a C cup and are slender.
As I said before women were not interested in me when I had confidence. Having confidence did not help me. Some of the women I've asked on dates and others that I did not, said to me or friends, that the main reason why they would not give me a chance was because I'm ugly. That is the only reason that has ever been given to me directly or forwarded to my friends(the most trusted ones). I did not ask my friends to help me. The girls wanted to go to them instead of saying it directly to me, and they thought I would be hurt.
How am I being macho? I'm just like everyone who wants to be respected. I don't start fights nor issues with people. I don't go looking for that.
How is not going to parties makes me no fun? That is just one activity that I'm not into. Unlike some people how has a similar issue, I have hobbies and I actually do things. Also unlike some people with this problem, I actually asked several women on dates. I think my issue is being judged like I'm not trying and I'm a boring person who does nothing.