[EvilEvilKitten]

Boring?!?!Sex with him is BORING?!?!?

THEN YOU'RE NOT DOING IT RIGHT

Sex is a conflagration of souls and a glorious reaffirmation of life!
Even with the same partner for 30, 40, 50 years.

The fact may very well be that the 'hardcore' quality of your sexual practice may have dulled your senses and you keep going further along this path because what once thrilled no longer does. Hence the constant search for something 'new'.

But superb sex is a dance of nuances between partners who are in themselves 'moving targets'.
Who you are today is not the same person you were 6 months ago or the same person you will be 6 months from now.

Think of sex as the ultimate in non-verbal communication.

Find, read, then do the two sticky posts entitled The Program and Body Worship. Learn to 'listen' to your bodies. Learn how to 'speak' with your bodies. Frankly, toys and positions and lingerie (etc) - none of that matters and none of it 'works'.

Discovering all of the hidden facets of your/his desires with nothing more than what you were born with - that is what works.