[Brandye]

Couple this with your other post on the pill and it is well past time to see your gyn. All women should have a complete exam before becoming sexually active. With any issue, such as you are bringing up, you should get to it before damage is done. Tell the doctor what you are experiencing as specifically as possible. Yes, embarrassing, but the doctor needs to know to help you. I am more comfortable with women doctors but then I am prejudiced and there are many good male gyn's. It is easier to talk about the specifics of your sex with a woman; it is easier for her to understand what you are saying.

The fact that you experience pain with your annual smear indicates that you have some situation worth discussing. Tell the doctor.

95%+ of all vaginas will accommodate 95%+ of penis available. If it is uncomfortable, find out why.