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Maybe you are over estimating her level of enjoyment for the acts that you've mentioned. It seems that a happy and satisfied woman would be more inclined to want more regular sex. Since you are hell bent on anal activities, it may be that she needs a week or so in between to recover as well as prepare mentally and physically for another assault. I know from my own experience, anal made me not want to have sex and knowing he was planning on sticking something up my butt severely impacted my ability to orgasm and enjoy the encounter at all.
Instead of making comments about objects and sexual acts you want to do to her, why don't you ask her what it will take to make her want you more often. Control and dominance is another area that many woman have trouble with. Women in our socety are raised to be more submissive, she may simply not be the aggressive type and is not comfortable taking control. It may be that you are your own worst enemy and because of your expectations and desires are outside of what your partner wants, desires and needs. The best way to get your own needs met is to take care of hers 1st. Once you find out the love language she understands and put into practice what works best for her, you'll probubly discover a woman allot more willing and eager for sex.
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