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> Obviously condoms / protection. What are the common standards for protection / sex if we are talking oral, anal, etc. Help me out here...
> Those are the kinds of Qs I'm looking to have answered right now. Help me get educated.
We've discussed these matters quite a lot, it seems like at least once a week.
* If the woman is not ready or prepared to be a mother then she must protect herself by using the Pill, patch, diaphragm, or some other form of highly reliable contraceptive.
* If the man is not ready or prepared to be a father then he must wear a condom.
* Both of these should have a back up--a spermicide.
As for anal, this depend upon whether you are planning for intercourse or just enjoying dildos and other toys. ALWAYS use a condom if you plan on penetrating the rectum. There are no exceptions.
Always use plenty of lubrication, and if you think you are using a sufficient amount, use more. There is a Sticky article listed in the Index that discusses the how-to's of anal play. I recommend reading it.
What other questions are on your mind?
-doc
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