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Old 05-14-2009, 03:41 PM
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> She doesn't object when I perform oral on her.

This is a situation that is quite common in which the woman doesn't mind receiving yet has concerns or problems reciprocating. She has stated that she wants to, and left to work this out on her own, probably will at some point. So, my suggestion for you is to simply ask in an upbeat manner that is not accusatory or negative, why she will accept your favors yet has trouble returning the favor.

It may just be that she does not know how to do it and is fearful of doing it wrong. If this is the case then the two of you should read the article in the Index that describes how. You can also guide her in what works for you, how you are responding to her caresses, and, for what you need now/next.

Please keep in mind that making love is not what we do to each other; it is what we do with and for each other in partnership. Explore and learn together. Learn from mistooks and do not be so self critical.
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