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She has yet to reach the stage of maturity and development in which she is comfortable with a person's body regardless of it being yours or hers or someone elses. This just takes time, especially if there are complications from moral teachings, education or the lack of, or what her elders have taught her.
More than likely this will happen if you do not push the issue--and, that you make a point of telling her that you have just showered and are clean and fresh. People worry about three things regarding oral: 1) that the person's body is sweaty and grimy; 2) that any trace of urine is somehow dirty, and 3) that it is a Gay activity only--wrong.
We've just solved the first and last issues, the second is in knowing and understanding that urine is actually sanitary, unless of course a person has a social disease.
I recommend that the two of you read all of the articles listed in the Index a couple of times and discuss what you have learned. Perhaps she can explain what her objections are about performing oral stimulation. Does she object to receiving it from you?
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Life without dancing?
I don't think so......
The feet may learn the steps;
yet only the spirit can dance!
Dancing is the fastest way to get
a girl alone and into your arms in public.
The Tango smolders and burns. It ignites the
heart, the soul, and yes, the libido.
Life is not about waiting for the storm to pass,
it's about learning how to Dance in the Rain!
Dance as if nobody is watching.
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