me and my bf spent last 11 months learning this stuff. i guess i know quite a lot on the subject now. we were lucky enough to meet a guy who taught us this stuff. i did not beleive this but i know for sure now - ANY woman can squirt. two of my best gf became curious and now they are doing it too. it is matter of experienced guide to teach a woman... it also has a lot to do with psychological issues/mental blocks in the head... good basics to learn are here:
http://www.dating-sexuality-relation...ng-orgasm.html
it took me 2 hours before i could squirt first time. it is more about letting myself go then anything else.