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Originally Posted by jlkidl
I know but i thought it was normal to get an errection standing up and be able to doggy your girlfriend in the shower? I dunno is it just me or isit normal to not get an errection standing up?
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This should be a no-brainer and obvious answer. How many erections do you get in a typical day? How long does each usually last? How many of these erections occur while standing and/or walking?
Now that we know that if you are typical and are experiencing lots of erections each day, many while walking around, that this is and YOU ARE NORMAL. That said, then why are you losing them when attempting to have intercourse?
* One possible explanation is that you are nervous and/or worrying about some issue or matter and this is causing the condition known as "Performance Anxiety"
* If you are finding it difficult to penetrate either the vagina or the anus (depending upon what type of intercourse you are wanting to do) then the back pressure against the base of the penis and the root structure inside the body from repeated prodding and pushing will cause penis to go soft.
The fix for the first condition is to simply stop worrying about whatever is on your mind.
The fix for the second condition is to apply plenty of lubrication to the vaginal opening (regardless of how wet the woman naturally is), and to the shaft and tip of the penis.
If you are trying to have anal intercourse, then please read the how-to article on this that is listed in the Index.