[EvilEvilKitten]

Frankly, Chino - I love the Swing/Lifestyle and should I ever be in a position to remarry it would be to a man within the Lifestyle. Not even a question! Be advised that the Lifestyle only exists because women permit it to and that it is the women who rule here. IF she says no, then no it is.

The key to 'sharing' is to understand that sex is adult play and love is the emotional bond. Keep the two separate and you're good. Enjoying sex with someone else does not mean you love her less. If you two agree there is also no betrayal or guilt.

Whatever 'ground rules' you two decide upon should be followed. Expect to have to renegotiate those rules over time since noe one quite knows how they will react to the changes an open marriage makes in their life. Just stay commited to eachother and all will be well.

The strip club is not a good idea. That is foreign to the Lifestyle. Should you wish to see what it is like beforehand - go to a swing club where partners intermingle freely.